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	<title>Pastor Ralph Diehl</title>
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	<description>Thoughts on Life</description>
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		<title>GOING AFTER MONEY</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/19/going-after-money/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2012 12:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several years ago I bumped into an old friend at a funeral home visit. I knew he had a reputation for being lazy and living off his girlfriend&#8217;s parents. So I asked him, &#8220;Where are you working now?&#8221; He replied that he wasn&#8217;t working anywhere at the time, he was &#8220;waiting on my disability.&#8221; There [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Several years ago I bumped into an old friend at a funeral home visit. I knew he had a reputation for being lazy and living off his girlfriend&#8217;s parents. So I asked him, &#8220;Where are you working now?&#8221; He replied that he wasn&#8217;t working anywhere at the time, he was &#8220;waiting on my disability.&#8221;</p>
<p>There are four ways you can go after money in this life:<br />
1. Borrow it<br />
2. Beg for it<br />
3. Steal it<br />
4. Earn it</p>
<p>The word &#8220;earn&#8221; is defined as<em> to introduce something new into existence and to harvest the yield that it produces.</em> When you go to work eight hours a day, forty hours a week, you harvest a paycheck for your time and labor. That is God&#8217;s law of sowing and reaping in operation.</p>
<p>Conversely, the welfare system gives a man his food and money without his having to work for it. God&#8217;s way is to develop His wisdom in your life so that you will always have the ability to earn money, even if the government system fails.</p>
<p>There should always be provision from the masses for those who cannot work, but if a man hasn&#8217;t earned it, he loses self respect and becomes dependent upon others instead of God. Agree or disagree? Is there another side to this?</p>
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		<title>VOLUNTEER APPRECIATION</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/18/volunteer-appreciation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 12:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tonight at 7PM we will have our annual Volunteer Appreciation Night. Ryan &#38; Friends will entertain us with his ventriloquist routine that is appropriate for both adults and children, so bring the whole family. We&#8217;ve also put together a humorous video of what your pastors do when you&#8217;re not looking. We&#8217;ll only be an hour, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight at 7PM we will have our annual Volunteer Appreciation Night. Ryan &amp; Friends will entertain us with his ventriloquist routine that is appropriate for both adults and children, so bring the whole family. We&#8217;ve also put together a humorous video of what your pastors do when you&#8217;re not looking. We&#8217;ll only be an hour, so please work this into your Friday evening plans. You&#8217;ll be glad you did.</p>
<p>Volunteering is what the church is all about. There are a few paid staff that keep the organizational machinery rolling, but real ministry takes place by ordinary people like you. There are a couple of organizations in the county working hard to get volunteers to work in various service organizations, but the very life of any church is its volunteers. So thank you for volunteering, whatever you do. We do appreciate and respect you.</p>
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		<title>PLANS GONE AWRY</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/17/plans-gone-awry/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 12:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pastordiehl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of years ago I performed a wedding at a rural home. The family had worked really hard to set things up nicely in the front yard. They had about 50 chairs set up and a nice small white canopy. They had set up a small arch where the ceremony occurred. But in their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of years ago I performed a wedding at a rural home. The family had worked really hard to set things up nicely in the front yard. They had about 50 chairs set up and a nice small white canopy. They had set up a small arch where the ceremony occurred.</p>
<p>But in their attempt to make this a really nice wedding, they purchased a carpet runner. When I first started doing weddings in the 1970s, carpet runners were cloth and came on a metal runner with handles. Today they are lightweight plastic around a cardboard tube and a short twine to pull it with. Not ideal for an outside wedding.</p>
<p>As the ushers attempted to unroll the plastic runner across the grass, the gentle breeze blew under it through the grass and rolled that runner. No matter what they tried to do, the runner would not stay in place.</p>
<p>The wedding went just like we planned, but the rolling carpet runner became the memory of the day. What plans have you made that have gone awry and what did God teach you through it?</p>
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		<title>SHARING THE WEALTH</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/16/sharing-the-wealth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pastordiehl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is the Day of Caring project organized by united Way of DeKalb County. Several volunteers from our church have signed up to work with Mark Jennings, who heads up our New Hope team. I understand they will be removing some deteriorated concrete steps at a house. That&#8217;s got to be a dusty mess of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today is the Day of Caring project organized by united Way of DeKalb County. Several volunteers from our church have signed up to work with Mark Jennings, who heads up our New Hope team. I understand they will be removing some deteriorated concrete steps at a house. That&#8217;s got to be a dusty mess of a job.</p>
<p>The Bible does talk about God&#8217;s people showing forth acts of repentance. We should act different than before. Warm-A-Heart is doing a similar act of repentance this weekend as they reach out to underprivileged women in the Ashley area with personal care products. Both of these efforts are example of &#8216;sharing the wealth&#8217; from a Christian perspective. Its not the same as the government taking finances from those who are successful and handing it out with no accountability to those who aren&#8217;t. That&#8217;s communal-ism (Communism) and it has proven to fail.</p>
<p>Christianity is when people like you and I personally invest what we have in helping those who don&#8217;t, in the name of Jesus!</p>
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		<title>OUT OF GAS</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/15/out-of-gas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 12:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is Anita and my daughter&#8217;s birthday. Jenny was born in 1978. Anita and I lived in a newly remodeled farmhouse just south of where we live today. That house sits off the road back a lane. When I brought Anita home from the hospital it was raining. I didn&#8217;t want to get wet gassing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today is Anita and my daughter&#8217;s birthday. Jenny was born in 1978. Anita and I lived in a newly remodeled farmhouse just south of where we live today. That house sits off the road back a lane. When I brought Anita home from the hospital it was raining. I didn&#8217;t want to get wet gassing the car up (that was before gas stations had awnings) and I thought I had plenty of gas to get back home. But, as I drove down the gravel road near our house, the car ran out of gas!</p>
<p>Anita, insecure with the care of her first newborn, was not a happy camper. I had to get out and run across the field to the house, where I had a gallon of lawn mower gas, and bring it back. I ruined a good pair of shoes that day. By the time I got back, Anita had nursed the baby and she was sound asleep.</p>
<p>Anita still reminds me of how I took care of my wife and daughter on that historic day. And I keep apologizing.</p>
<p>Have you ever run out of gas? What&#8217;s the story?</p>
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		<title>ANGRY WITH GOD</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/14/angry-with-god/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 12:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pastordiehl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever been angry at God? Did you get over it? Here&#8217;s a key: I told God I was angry; I thought He’d be surprised. I thought I’d kept hostility quite cleverly disguised. I told the Lord I hate Him; I told Him that I hurt. I told Him that He isn’t fair, He treated me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever been angry at God? Did you get over it? Here&#8217;s a key:</p>
<p>I told God I was angry;<br />
I thought He’d be surprised.<br />
I thought I’d kept hostility<br />
quite cleverly disguised.</p>
<p>I told the Lord I hate Him;<br />
I told Him that I hurt.<br />
I told Him that He isn’t fair,<br />
He treated me like dirt.</p>
<p>I told God I was angry,<br />
but I’m the one surprised.<br />
“What I’ve known all along,” He said,<br />
“you’ve finally realized.</p>
<p>“At last you have admitted<br />
what’s really in your heart;<br />
Dishonesty, not anger,<br />
was keeping us apart.</p>
<p>“Even when you hate Me,<br />
I don’t stop loving you.<br />
Before you can receive that love,<br />
you must confess what’s true.</p>
<p>“In telling Me the anger<br />
you genuinely feel,<br />
it loses power over you<br />
permitting you to heal.”</p>
<p>I told God I was sorry,<br />
and He’s forgiven me.<br />
The truth that I was angry<br />
had finally set me free.</p>
<p>-Jessica Shaver</p>
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		<title>CLERGY/CLIENT CONFIDENTIALITY</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/12/clergyclient-confidentiality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 12:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pastordiehl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There has always been this debate about confidentiality between ministers and people who make confessions. Is this privileged information, or can a minister be subpoenaed to testify regarding what an accused person told them in confidence? I just learned a new definition of that today from Eric Openlander, the Jail Commander at the DeKalb County [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There has always been this debate about confidentiality between ministers and people who make confessions. Is this privileged information, or can a minister be subpoenaed to testify regarding what an accused person told them in confidence?</p>
<p>I just learned a new definition of that today from Eric Openlander, the Jail Commander at the DeKalb County Jail. According to him, what a person tells a minister in private, for his/her ears only, is considered confidential information. However, if there is another person or persons present when the confession was made, then it becomes public information and a minister can be called upon to testify regarding that information.Of course, the confidentiality rule does not include future crimes or child molesting.</p>
<p>What do you think of the clergy/client confidentiality law? Should a person be able to confess things to a priest or minister and have it remain confidential? What are your thoughts?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>REMEMBERING BILL</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/11/remembering-bill/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 12:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We just received word that Bill Albright passed away. Bill was a member of New Hope and was an encouragement to me. Bill&#8217;s wife, Vada, was an active part of our church for years. A couple of years ago Bill got a bad news report from his doctor. That report scared Bill, because he was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We just received word that Bill Albright passed away. Bill was a member of New Hope and was an encouragement to me. Bill&#8217;s wife, Vada, was an active part of our church for years. A couple of years ago Bill got a bad news report from his doctor. That report scared Bill, because he was faced with the reality that he could die. For the first time he recognized that he wasn&#8217;t ready for that.</p>
<p>So he asked Vada to call and see if I would come to his house and talk with him. I listened to his concerns, shared the gospel with him and asked if he was ready to accept Christ as his Savior. He said a sinner&#8217;s prayer with me and a peace came over him. He thanked me and I invited him to come to church with Vada.</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s a problem,&#8221; he said. He told me about a phobia he had of someone sitting behind him. Because of some past incidents, he was afraid of being attacked from the rear. So I told him we had just the seat for him, right up against the back wall next to the door in case he needed a quick escape. And sure enough, that became his permanent seat ever since.</p>
<p>Today he has a new seat right up front in heaven. Welcome home, Bill.</p>
<p>His funeral will be here at the church on Monday. What will you remember about Bill Albright?</p>
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		<title>TERRITORIAL RIGHTS</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/10/territorial-rights/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 12:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pastordiehl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I attended a wedding a while back where the officiating minister used an interesting phrase in his wedding sermon that I had never heard used in a wedding: &#8220;Territorial Rights&#8221;. We usually use this phrase when we talk about certain countries having territorial rights or jurisdiction over certain pieces of land or waterways. But, apply [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I attended a wedding a while back where the officiating minister used an interesting phrase in his wedding sermon that I had never heard used in a wedding: &#8220;Territorial Rights&#8221;. We usually use this phrase when we talk about certain countries having territorial rights or jurisdiction over certain pieces of land or waterways. But, apply that to a marriage between two independent people and we can have turf wars of our own.</p>
<p>Do we have &#8216;Territorial Rights&#8217; once we merge our lives in marriage? Do I have rights as it pertains to &#8220;my money&#8221; versus &#8220;your money&#8221;? Do I have any rights to the TV remote control or computer time? Do I have rights to certain housekeeping chores and expect those I don&#8217;t like to be yours? Do we have a right to put &#8216;Do Not Trespass&#8217; limits when it comes to lovemaking? Do I have a right to claim certain food in the fridge as my territory?</p>
<p>We all struggle with Territorial Rights. But you cannot survive a marriage defending your rights. Marriage is a merger of spiritual proportions. Being selfish in a marriage is like being a Christian while leaving God out of your life: doomed to failure.</p>
<p>What territory are you defending that needs to be surrendered?</p>
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		<title>PLAYING THE PART</title>
		<link>http://www.ralphdiehl.com/2012/05/09/playing-the-part/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 12:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anita and I went to DeKalb High School&#8217;s opening performance of the play &#8216;Les Miserables&#8217; last week. What an ambitious project and what a heart-wrenching story. I was too timid to participate in my High School&#8217;s play &#8216;The Sound of Music&#8217;, but I was one of the stage hands and helped make the Austrian flag [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anita and I went to DeKalb High School&#8217;s opening performance of the play &#8216;Les Miserables&#8217; last week. What an ambitious project and what a heart-wrenching story.</p>
<p>I was too timid to participate in my High School&#8217;s play &#8216;The Sound of Music&#8217;, but I was one of the stage hands and helped make the Austrian flag (with my Mom&#8217;s help, of course). I was in a play once. I was a Paul &amp; Timothy student and we worked as staff of Calvary Temple&#8217;s various ministries.</p>
<p>There was a Christmas play that year (1974) and I had the role of Isaiah the prophet prophesying about the coming of the Messiah. It wasn&#8217;t a speaking part. I just sat at a desk in long robe, wig, and powdered beard, with a feather quill in my hand. I was to look awestruck as the revelation of God came upon me, rising from the desk and lifting my hands to the sky, all while a narrator read the text.</p>
<p>We did that at the Scottish-Rite Auditorium and the place was packed. All I could see was the spotlight in my eyes, but I was a nervous wreck. Playing the part of someone else is never easy.</p>
<p>But isn&#8217;t that what Jesus did for us? He was God, but made Himself in our image, to identify with our sins, to the very point of paying the price for us. He played the part of you and me.</p>
<p>What role did you once play and was it easy?</p>
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