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Sep

FAMILY TIME

   Posted by: pastordiehl   in Family Values

What would you do for $111,000? Back in 1993 Houston Oilers football player David Williams missed a big game and was docked that amount. What was the big deal? His wife had given birth to their first son, Scot, and David stayed with her through the whole experience. His coach objected and critics said the team should have sent a jet to pick him up for the big game, but Williams thought it was important to stay by his wife.

If David Williams continues to demonstrate this kind of commitment to his family, then Scot too is likely to see the importance of right priorities. In my years of ministry, I have seen many situations when men put their jobs before their children, only to see them rebel against the faith later.

I remember one evening after dinner I was sitting in front of the TV with my young daughter on my lap. I announced that I had to go back to the church for a meeting and she asked why. I told her that I was a pastor and people in the church had to work, and if I wanted to meet with them I needed to go in the evening. In disgust she replied, “I wish you weren’t a preacher!”

That night challenged me. From then on I made every effort to spend more evening time with my family.

God said, “You shall teach these words diligently to your children” (Deuteronomy 6:7).

Would you sacrifice $111,000 for your family?

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2 comments so far

Tara Lilly
 1 

Balance-it seems to be the hardest thing! Our intentions are so good for so many things we want to do but don’t have enough time for. This past weekend I was in a situation where I knew the right thing was to do something for someone, but I had to ask my own children to wait and be inconvenienced in order to help. In this case I was able to explain it later and thank God they understood what mommy was doing and it all turned out OK. But I’m a “helper” type that would constantly being doing for others and could end up neglecting my own family. I pray that the Lord will grow me in wisdom to know when to say yes and when to say no.

September 15th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Chris Swanson
 2 

I agree with Tara, balance is necessary. Without that, our children could believe parents are here to serve them. They are an important part of our lives, but not the center. Only the Lord Himself should be there. Too many parents today are raising “Self” centered chilren rather than God centered.

September 16th, 2009 at 12:00 pm

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