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Dec

SIMPLIFY

   Posted by: pastordiehl   in Uncategorized

Christmas customs change from generation to generation. I’ve seen quite a change in customs from the 1950s when I grew up to today. So I asked my Dad a couple of years ago how they celebrated Christmas when he was a child (latter 1920s, prior to the Great Depression). The economy was booming and my grandfather was proprietor of Diehl’s Jewelry Store in Butler, so they were better off than many in a small town.

He told me they set up a small evergreen tree on a table in the living room, and decorated it with tinsel. On Christmas morning he found fruit and nuts in his stocking near the tree and one gift, usually an item of clothing.

Perhaps a little simplicity around our Christmas celebrations today wouldn’t be so bad. Perhaps the generation who had won World War II and felt invincible spoiled its children with an ever increasing array of gifts that the next generation can never keep up with. Perhaps the gifts that used to come with joy from love, now come with a load of debt from a sense of duty.

Does that mound of guilt-reducing gifts really enhance Christmas joy? Do our children really appreciate us more for it? I think I’ll try to simplify Christmas this year.

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Shelia Ulery
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I agree totally. I think Christmas has become so commercial. I will buy you a gift what are you paying for mine so i can spend the same amount. In 1981 i was very ill. Doctors could night find the reason. I could not work and had to go to the welfare for help. I went to a church ( i wont say which one) with my sister. During Sunday school class they were planning their class Christmas party and each one was to bring a five dolloar gift to exchange. I Said why dont you take those five dollars and make a christmas for someone who will not have one. They said well we have never done that before and where would we find a family. Well it was my first time there and was put in charge of finding a family and providing Christmas for them. What a wonderful Christmas it was that year. We found a very needy family and advertised on radio show called Trading post for donations. We got many gifts, lots of clothes, food and a christmas tree with all the trimmings. My boys each got one gift that year a two dollar watch. But what they gained as they helped provide Christmas for a family of 15 was the best gift they could get. The church did not share in the process which was sad they missed out on the joy. If we could just take the ME out of Christmas and put Christ back into Christmas. What if when asked what do you want for Christmas the answer would be a new coat for someone or food for someone else etc. What a wonderful Season it would be and Christmas could extend for the whole year in the name of Jesus.

December 23rd, 2008 at 8:40 am
Don France
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I couldn’t agree more. Julie and I have cut way back on the gifts this year. We plan on spending Christmas day with our family just rejoicing with each other and thanking God for His many blessings in our lives.

I feel like we’ve lost the true meaning of Christmas. I mean, you can’t even say Merry Christmas anymore in fear of offending someone.

I’ve started work towards my bachelors degree in business management. This semester my class was Intermediate Composition. One of the papers we had to do was called a visual argument; we had to tell our story using only pictures. I pulled a bunch of “holiday” pictures of the internet…all types including pictures of the nativity. I mingled the nativity pictures in with all the secular ones (a Christmas where’s Waldo). The night of our class we had to go around the room and give our impression of everyone’s picture. Not one person mentioned the nativity pictures. After that we had an opportunity to speak to the class about out picture. I was able to speak about the birth of Jesus Christ and what the means to me. IT WAS AWESOME!!

I absolutely refuse to allow this world to take the Christ out of Christmas…it doesn’t matter how politically incorrect anyone feels I might be. It’s not about the number of gifts we give or receive. It’s all about a little child, born of virgin, who came to this world for you and me. It’s all about His destiny….the cross. It’s all about a love so big…so awesome…words can’t even begin to describe. I’m on a mission to put CHRIST back into Christmas.

December 23rd, 2008 at 11:36 am
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Bethany and I have decided that next year, our boys will each get 3 gifts from us: one toy, one book, and one piece of clothing. The rest of the money we will use to buy items for families/children that are in need. They both have too much stuff as it is, and Brennan prefers to play with empty milk jugs anyway. :)

December 23rd, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Jennifer
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One thing that has become a tradition in our family is to participate in Operation Christmas Child through Samaritan’s Purse. Having my daughter prepare a box of gifts for another little girl generates so many good conversations as we shop, wrap, and pray over the contents of the box together!

December 23rd, 2008 at 8:26 pm

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