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CAREGIVERS

   Posted by: pastordiehl   in Casting Out Cancer

Today is the 21st day since surgery. I went to church last night and after standing and singing for twenty minutes I was exhausted. I just don’t have much stamina yet. But, Pastor Chet did a great job talking on stress, and it was good to be in fellowship again with God’s people. I had intended to stay with my Dad Sunday morning so my sister could take my Mom to church, but Dad decided he wanted her home with him.

My Dad is 84 and has prostate cancer (its hereditary) that has spread to his bones. Its no fun to watch him suffer as he is. When he was my age they had no way to detect prostate cancer early, and my Dad is resistant to any kind of medical treatment, anyway. One stubborn and independent guy!

I intend to go over and visit with them both this afternoon while Anita is away for the choir concert in Kokomo.

I think its a healthy part of life for us to be caregivers for someone else. It helps us get outside of our own problems. Who are you helping to care for and how has it helped you grow?

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5 comments so far

Cindy Warstler
 1 

God has showed me alot while helping to take care of my grandma. I believe God has called me to serve in nursing. I currently am working at two nursing homes with the elderly what a blessing it has been. I have been able to minister to them in many ways. God has also taught me patience. What a blessing it has been being able to work in the homes.
Continue to enjoy your time off and take this time to rest, I will be praying for you’re trip to Nashville and for a very enjoyable time with the grandkids. God bless you and Anita. We miss you.

November 16th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
shelia
 2 

I am sorry to hear about you dad. He will be in my prayers. I know how hard it is to see your loved ones suffer. I cared for my grandpa at home for 5 1/2 months he was bedfast after a bad stoke. He passed away cradled in my arms. Then 7 years later my grandma became bedfast and i cared for her 24/7 6 1/2 months. We had some wonderful talks as i cared for them. Grandma passed away holding my hand. I have worked in health care since 1970. I tried to get away from it after grandma passed on and went to work at Walmart. But it was like there was a hole in me not filled. I went back to health care. I now do home health care. I love my work and the special people i care for. You can feel the love flow from them. It has helped me to learn to share Gods word and his love with them. They ask for prayer often. I am given alot of alzhiemers clients to care for and i enjoy that challenge. It has taught me patience and how to look beyond the surface to the heart to know what they want and need. Have a great time with your family. Will be glad to see you back. The sermon on stress was great. It was another one for me. love you and Anita

November 16th, 2008 at 8:19 pm
Marie Brewer
 3 

After taking care of my mother full time for the last few years of her life, I decided that God had called me to help senior citizens.

I went to work for the Heimach Center. I have several elderly clients and some handicapped clients. I go to their homes where I clean, do laundry, or take them places or run an errand for them. I find that my clients are very thankful for any assistance they receive.

For me, I believe this is my calling and I feel blessed every day that I can help my clients.

Pastor and Anita have an enjoyable week in Nashville!

November 16th, 2008 at 9:36 pm
Sharon S.
 4 

I have cared for my Mama Rose for ten years now, most of that at home, but now at the nursing home. I have learned so much. I always had lots of respect for caregivers, but I have even more now. It is, indeed, hard to watch someone you love in pain and suffering, but the rewards are so great. I do know that God does not do things for no reason. There are many opportunities every single day to be a blessing. My mother is also a blessing, not only to the other residents, but to the staff as well. We praise God daily.

November 17th, 2008 at 7:31 pm
Barb Boyer
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Pastor Diehl, Sorry to hear that you father also has Prostate Cancer. Steve’s dad had prostate cancer but it was caught in the last stage and we took turns staying with him and caring for him as his wife was dealing with cancer herself. We did spend a lot of time taking care of them all the way till they
passed. I would not change that for nothing as we all talked alot and we learned alot. It also prepares you for your future.

November 17th, 2008 at 10:38 pm

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